Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Sometimes, I Get Frustrated

Sometimes, when I am working on a project, and I think I am doing it right but no matter what I do it seems to turn out wrong.  So, I get more and more frustrated, and all of a sudden, nothing is right.

That was happening tonight.  I was interrupted by a phone call.  I could not decide if I wanted to answer the phone or keep working.  But, I did answer the phone, when I realized it was a special friend who was calling.

I don't think I was good phone company tonight.  I did not have too much to say. And, I could not think of things to ask my friend about.  I did tell her about my frustrating project.

We had a nice visit though, and my frustration melted away as we talked.  I tried once more, and sure enough, what ever I was doing wrong, this time the project came out right.

That is such a relief. 

Lately, when I start a project, I am so afraid things will turn out wrong, I set up a tension of self-fulfilling prophesy. I need to chill out and have more confidence, or at least, less self-doubt.

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